Punishing - these will recommend positive discipline strategies , effectively teaching children to manage their behavior and keep them from harm while promoting healthy development.
1. Talk with work
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Teach children from wrong to right from speaking, interpreting, explaining to acting with a calm and guiding attitude. You do not need to scream when instructing your child. And of course, you have to go along with doing, be a role model for what you say, what you teach your children.
2. Setting limits will help parents limit the punishment of their children
Have clear and consistent rules your child can follow. Be sure to interpret these rules in age-appropriate terms they can understand.
3. Punish your child by introducing consequences
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Calmly and firmly explain the consequences if they don't behave. For example, tell your child that if he or she doesn't pick up your toys, put them away for the rest of the day. And do so if you still don't follow the rule.
Do not give up by letting your child play again after a few minutes, if you do so then all the rules you give the child will not obey, the child knows the mother will let it go, the child will not learn the consequences from the his improper action. But remember, never take away anything your child really needs, such as a meal.
4. Listen to your child
Listening is a very important step, when all contradictions conflict. Let your child complete the story before helping to solve the problem. Keep track of the times when misconduct is patterned, like if your child feels jealous. Talk to your child about this instead of just giving out the consequences.
5. Give your child your attention
The most powerful tool to practice effectiveness is attention to education to reinforce good behavior. Remember, all children want their parents' attention.
6. Praise them as soon as they do well, as well as let them know when they do something bad
Children need to know when they do something bad - and when they do something good. Notice good behavior and point it out, praising success and doing well. Be specific (eg “Wow, you did a great job putting that toy away!”).
And also calmly tell your children that their behaviors are not right, wrong, or unacceptable. Explain, persevere and be consistent in words as well as punish your child for doing it wrong.
7. Know when not to answer
As long as your child isn't doing something dangerous and is given a lot of attention for good behavior, ignoring the bad behavior can be an effective way to stop it. Ignoring bad behavior can also teach children the natural consequences of their actions.
For example, if your baby continues to throw cookies away, he will soon have no cookies to eat. If I throw and break my toy, I will not be able to play with it. It won't be long before your child learns not to put away cookies and play carefully with their toys.
8. Be prepared for any trouble
Plan ahead for situations when your child may find it difficult to behave. Prepare them for the upcoming activities and how you want them to behave.
9. Redirects bad behavior
Sometimes children are mischievous because they are bored or ignorant. Find something else for your child to do.
10. Punish the child by using the time-out method
Time-out penalties can be especially helpful when a particular rule is broken. This disciplinary tool works best by warning kids that they will lose their access to play (sitting in the chair thinking) - it's a time-out penalty - if they don't stop, reminding them what they've been make mistakes in words and with less emotion - the better, and remove them from the situation before the time-out penalty occurs.
Penalty time (1 minute for each year of age is a good rule), for example 3 years of age the maximum penalty time is 3 minutes. For children at least 3 years old, you can try letting them run out of time on their own instead of setting a timer. You can just say, "Time is up and come back when you feel ready and in control." This strategy, which can help children learn and practice self-management skills, also works well for older children and teenagers.
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