Want to build a good personality for children - Family education contributes to the key in building the formation of compassion for children.
The upbringing of the family is of paramount importance if we want to raise children to build good character for them.
1. Don't give me everything I want, I ask
Given everything they want, children will no longer appreciate what they have, and the demands are only soaring.
Delayed rewards. Make the fun simple, surprising and rewarding.
Build a good personality for your child
2. Learn to say no and stick to it
When I say no to my child, I will cry, I will eat , and will be weird. Parents must be definitive and explain clearly to their children.
Be comfortable with your child's discomfort. Create rules and limits. Children with permissive parents develop more easily into easy humans with poor stamina.
3. Reward children for their good behavior, not for their achievements
Only aim at phenomena, behavior and events, because that is what needs to be criticized or praised, for children to learn.
Emphasize much about what they can do, not who they are. Praise them when they are honest, when they speak kindly to a real woman, when they stop to help someone on the street or open the door to strangers.
4. Teaching kindness through practice, not theory
Talk about honesty. Talk about kindness. Give children methods to develop these personalities. Instead of teaching children what not to do, teach them to do good things.
providing opportunities for children to practice and understand, not teaching flat theory.
5. Good people to follow
Treat others with respect . Have a nice conversation with the service staff coming home. Smile at the payment officer. Communicate honestly with others. Improve your child's language. Make your home a place free of rumors and ridicule. Your child will keep track of what their parents have been doing.
6. Teach children how to communicate with adults
Children will become adults one day and they need to learn to respect and treat those who are older than them. Teach them how to look, greet them by name, ask what they're doing, and say thank you.
7. Teach children to be grateful
When your child accepts a gift or someone cooks them a meal, teach them how to thank them. Talk about your gratitude, especially non-material things.
8. Teach children to work hard and serve others
Ask your child to do chores around the house every day. Don't do for your kids what they can do for themselves.
9. Let children read books to improve character
Read with your child books about biographies, novels and memoirs, pointing out lessons about the lives of the characters in the book.
Moments that parents teach a child can happen at any time of the day. Life is the vehicle to which we guide. We need to remember who is in the driver's seat.
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