Understand childrens tantrums, nagging, bullying, and yelling to teach them instead of scolding them

Anger, nagging, nagging, screaming: Anger can be a nuisance for any parent. But instead of looking at them like disasters.

But instead of looking at them as catastrophes, see anger as opportunities for education.

Why do children have this anger, screaming, nagging, and nagging?

Anger arose from moaning and crying screaming, kicking, hitting and holding his breath. They both occur in boys and girls and usually occur between the ages of 1 and 3.

Some children may have frequent tantrums, and others rarely have them.

Tantrums are a normal part of a child's development . That is how young children show they are upset or depressed.

Tantrums can occur when a child is tired, hungry or uncomfortable. They may be in a crisis because they cannot get something (like a toy or a parent) to do what they want.

Learning to deal with disappointment is a skill that kids gain over time.

 

Understand your child's tantrums, nagging, bullying, and screaming

The climax of the attacks or crises of age is 2

Tantrums are common during the second year of life, when language skills begin to develop. Because toddlers are unable to say what they want, feel, or need, a frustrating experience can trigger a tantrum.

As language skills improve, tantrums tend to decrease.

Toddlers want to be independent and in control of their environment - more than they can actually handle. This can lead to power struggles when a child thinks "I can do it myself" or "I want it, give it to me." When kids find out that they can't do it and can't have everything they want, there can be a frenetic tantrum.

Avoid anger

Try to avoid anger from occurring in the first place, whenever possible. Here are some ideas that may be helpful:

Give your baby lots of positive attention: Have a habit when your baby has good attitude. Reward your baby with a bit of praise and attention for the positive behavior.

Try to give your child some control over the little things:  Offer small choices like "Do you want orange juice or apple juice?" or "Would you like to brush your teeth before or after a shower?"

Keep demanding objects out of sight and out of reach: This makes the struggle less likely. Obviously, this is not always possible, especially outside of the house where the environment cannot be controlled.

Redirecting your child's attention:  Take advantage of your baby's short attention span by offering something different in place of what they can't have. Start a new activity to replace the frustrating or forbidden one. Or simply change the environment. Take your baby out or inside or move to another room.

Help your child learn new and successful skills:  Help your child learn to work. Praise them to help them feel proud of what they can do. Also, start with something simple before moving on to more difficult tasks.

Examine the request carefully when you want something . Is it outrageous? Maybe it's not that bad - and decide to give baby ngya from the beginning instead of waiting after the baby purrs and puffs. So consider and consider what you want and possible within the limits allowed.

Know your child's limits:  If you know your baby is and will be tired, this is not the best time to go grocery shopping or try to squeeze your baby's energy again, to push him into nagging and nagging higher

A plan to deal with your child's anger

Stay calm when responding to a rage. Don't complicate matters with your own frustration or anger being dragged into your child's anger. Remind yourself that your work is helping your child learn to stay calm. So you need to be calm.

Tantrums should be handled differently depending on why your child is upset. At times, you may need to give your child comfort, comfort, recognition. If your child is tired or hungry, it's time for a nap or a snack. Other times, it's best to let go of a boom or distract your child with a new activity.

If a rage is going on to attract a parent's attention, one of the best ways to reduce this behavior is to ignore it. If a tantrum comes after your child is denied something, stay calm and don't give as much explanation as to why your child can't get what he wants. Switch to another activity with your child.

If a anger occurs after your child is told to do something that he or she doesn't want to do, it's best to let go of the anger. But be sure to remind your child to do it after he or she calms down.

Children who are at risk of hurting themselves or others in anger should be taken to a quiet, safe place to stay calm. This also applies to tantrums in public places.

If a safety issue is involved and a child repeats forbidden behavior after being told to stop, use time-out or secure babysitting for a few minutes. Be consistent. Safety issues should not be overlooked or taken lightly.

Preschoolers and older children are more likely to use anger to get what they want if they have learned that this behavior was effective and demanding to the mother. For your children already in school - you can put them in your room and calm down.

Time-out: Instead of setting a specific time limit, have your child stay in the room until they regain control. This is empowerment - children can influence the outcome by their own actions, and thus gain a sense of control that is lost in anger. However, if the waiting time for an anger is combined with negative behavior (such as hitting), set a time limit.

After the storm, it was morning again

Don't reward your child's anger after he has overcome it. This will only prove to your child that his anger has been effective and will be commended. Instead, verbally praise your child for regaining control. Use statements like "I like the way you calm down".

In addition, children can be especially vulnerable to anger when they learn that they are spoiled (no one likes them anymore). Now (when your baby is calm) is the time to give a hug and make sure your baby is loved, no matter what.

Make sure your baby gets enough sleep. With too little sleep, children can become irritable, irritable and have extreme attitudes in behavior. Getting enough sleep can significantly reduce anger. Find out how much sleep is needed at your child's age. Most of a child's sleep needs fall within a certain time range based on their age, but each child has its own sleep needs.

Compiled for the Asian parents Vietnam

Reference - Kids Health - Temper Tantrums

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