Mistakes that parents often make in parenting

Many people often impose their thoughts on their children regardless of their feelings. Here are some common parenting mistakes.

It is still known that the parents who give birth to a natural child do not want it like that, but in the child's personality is the love of the parents for the child, and that character is sustainable, not based on education.

1. Always meet your child's needs 

You always think that meeting all of your child's needs is a parent to be doing, that is for the material well-being, but that is just wrong. When your child asks for anything that you give when you are a child, you will still be able to ask for small things when you grow up, ask for things beyond their parents' reach. If parents still fulfill all their children's needs, there are still more spoiled children and painful scenes.

2. Do not discipline your child

When you see your child playing tricks or bullying another child that you do not act to stop, he will be more likely to become aggressive and difficult to talk later. Lack of discipline in parenting often stems from not wanting to look right at the nature of the problem. Parents often don't know how to build rules with their children, so they choose to be quiet and do nothing.

Parenting in this way can lead to serious problems like crimes. Children need to be taught about the boundaries between the good and the bad as well as how to interact and communicate with others. If they are not directed at an early age, the line between right and wrong will become blurred.

Most parents do not pay much attention to this, because they feel tired and always lazy after stressful working hours, parents do not want to do anything to make their children free. Discipline your children from the time they are young, from regular time to school. This will create a habit for the child and how to work by hour will have great effects that parents.

3. Not interested in children's education

Being interested in your child's education and school helps you understand a lot about your child, which is a place to educate your child's personality, but there are many parents who always give themselves the reasons for being too busy. take care of your children. The children's learning situation is almost unknown, they do not know what friends they play, whether you are good or bad. Therefore, creating a distance between parents and children, without intimacy, parents who do not understand their children's psychology easily cause conflicts.

4. Teaching in imposing ways

Parents often have a habit of imposing will on their children in teaching them, parents always think their children are too small to take care of themselves, their thoughts are children, so parents do not accept ideas. your ants. Because of that, they always force their children to be like this and that, never listen to their children's opinions, which makes children disobedient and irritable, but parents think they are bad.

5. Say, scold too much

Whether you explain or teach your children, parents should not talk too much. According to some studies have shown: the average human brain can only "digest" 5 to 9 problems at once, so when you talk and tell children too many things at once they will quickly forget and often not listening attentively.

6. Continuously reprimanded

When parents want their kids to do something, like brushing their teeth before going to bed or having finished playing with toys, use a gentle voice and encourage them to do so. Avoid blaming voices because they will feel sad and do the opposite of what you expect.

7. Forcing children to do what their parents want

It's not a good idea to just force your child to do his thing, especially if they don't want to. Parents think that's good for the baby? Not completely, it is your parenting mistake that will make your baby stressed and unable to be happy and comfortable to be able to develop well the abilities they have and integrate with the world. outside. In addition, when your pressure reaches the child's tolerance limit, the baby will react in a very negative way and the consequences will be unpredictable.

8. Don't let me do anything / Or do for me ...

Parents often fear everything if their children do, fall, fall, burn ... they're too young to do. And often parents do it for their children to take care of their teeth instead of those jobs that they need to practice and experience, which is also a part of their overall development. At each appropriate age, children must acquire common social skills for their development, including chores, taking care of themselves, people around them and surroundings. So creating conditions for children to do things, children to fail, to experience and learn children is one of the requirements and useful advice for parents.

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