Resuming after divorce is something any couple has ever hoped for. Hope that person has changed, got better after thinking for a long time ...
Marriage is the grave of love. Believe that a lot of people have heard that statement. And I also believe a lot of people have experienced the situation on their own. More importantly, can you get back together after the divorce?
Resuming the divorce is definitely something everyone has dreamed of. Above all, their children are the one who desires the most. Neither son wants to lose one of the births.
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The story below is probably the common situation of many people ...
“I got married at 25 years old. Husband is 27 years old, is the head of a large company. His family did not like me at that time because I was a local resident. Having been married for a year, I gave birth to my first daughter, then quit my job and only got some allowances. Husband is passionate about antique cars, so how much money will be put into it. That's why we quarreled a lot.
Divorce makes people lonely
When my child was three years old, I found out that my husband had an affair with a girl in a caravan. My husband cursed and took my motorbike to sell. My husband's family also scolded me. I have no choice but to break up with my husband and go to my mother's house to rely on.
I was devastated a lot, but thanks to my family's encouragement, I got up to make money to care for my daughter. Nearly 7 years I have been working in business. Right now my income is very good.
Maybe my ex-husband has now quit his job and also broke up with his new wife. Recently, he called me earnestly to pick up his daughter and wanted me to give him a chance to do it again. I wondered how to handle it. "
The main causes of broken marriages
There are many reasons for a broken marriage. In which, there must be a third person. This is the main cause and many families encounter. In addition, other reasons should also be considered. Eg:
- Husband and wife do not respect each other. The key to a strong relationship in general and to a relationship in particular is respect.
Do not understand each other, do not resolve conflicts to then leave each other
- Conflict and conflict lasted. Understanding and tolerance are the leading factors in a sustainable marriage. Each of us has our own flaws, and not all couples are compatible in everything.
- The story "blanket and pillow" is not in harmony. Sex is the binding substance, it can also be the reason why two people are separated.
- Money cannot be agreed. Many couples cannot agree on how to use money properly.
- Marry when too young. When thinking is unripe, marriage can be disastrous.
- Too jealous. In love as in marriage, jealousy is like a spice. If seasoned enough, it will make your married life more attractive. However, extreme jealousy is like a poison that kills marriage.
Resuming the Divorce - For what reason?
Remember, before you agree to get back together, remember what did you give up for? Has that reason been resolved? Are you sure that after you come back, life is not as deadly as it used to be? Some reasons many people give to return:
Children are the most miserable when their parents divorce
- For the children. This is the most common reason. For their children, they are willing to trade everything. These are the people who deserve respect.
- Because we still have feelings for each other. It is also possible, especially for young couples who are separated from each other out of anger.
- Economic reasons. Some people can't grow themselves and have enough money to spend on their own, That's why they come back to you ...
- Pressure from family and society. Really, if it's for this reason, it's best not to go back. Otherwise, your life will go to hell.
- Lonely? It's correct! Many people have come back for this reason. They cannot stand the loneliness amid this difficult life.
Get out of the way. If so, please agree. Hit the runaway, no one hits the runner.
Epilogue
Do not leave each other because of a little misunderstanding
Gone are the times when it was imperative to associate your life with someone. If before, you leave your wife, you will be suggested by the neighbors. Remember, you live your life, no one can. If you feel that the person is satisfied enough, it's fine to try going back. But if you recognize a reason, be careful and calm.
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