Can child mania syndrome affect a childs psychological development?

Child mania syndrome is a condition that can be "acquired" by any mother to a lesser extent. But when excessive love affects the child's psychological development, mothers need to be very careful.

Child mania syndrome - Effects of postpartum psychological changes?

When the baby is born, it is a great effort for a woman. However, then it is a consequence for them, from health to psychology. Psychology of women after giving birth  therefore has a change, but sometimes feel "scary".

The main reason for the state of feeling, thinking and psychology of women after giving birth has many changes is due to the content of hormonal hormones in the body. Estrogen levels are high during pregnancy but after birth, levels drop dramatically. The mother's body is not used to this sudden change, which leads to a change in her physiology.

Childhood mania can also be classified into one of the conditions caused by the above changes. On the other hand, for first-time mothers, excessive worries about the child's survival (the baby is too young, can not speak, will the child be in danger, will the child be suffocated, ...), love A cold for the first baby in the family makes more mothers "suffer from this syndrome".

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Share of a young mother

“My daughter is four years old. At this point I can have my next baby, but I don't want to. My daughter has been like an angel since birth. I usually give birth very easily, with abdominal pain only two hours to see the baby right away. All nurturing and child care for me are very gentle, not a stressful day.

But importantly, just looking at my child was infatuated. I could not stand it for ten minutes. My husband told us that we should have another baby so that I could lessen my mania. I am so scared, afraid that if more babies appear in the house, my love for them will decrease ”.

Identify signs of maternal mania syndrome after giving birth 

In fact, as psychiatrists often joke, every mother in this world shows signs of "baby mania" from mild to severe. Let's take a look at the common signs of this "difficult to cure" syndrome in mothers?

Show off everything in the world about you. In the eyes of my mother is number one, the smartest, the most agile, the most beautiful. Every baby's movements are recorded by the mother. That's why many pictures of the baby taking off the cage, the baby pooping, ... are also enthusiastically shared by the mother on social networks.

Excessive worry about children. No matter what the baby does, even though she is being cared for, the mother is always worried and uneasy. Consequently, the mother will take care of all the baby care. Even more outrageous, many mothers do not allow relatives to participate or help them with their children.

Can not stand being apart from children. Even though it was only a few minutes. If you have to be away from your child, you will call or check constantly to see how your child is doing.

Meet all the requirements of the child. As babies gradually grow up, begin to realize their needs, mothers who are crazy about children will blindly respond to their children's demands. Gradually from there forming an excessive pampering child.

A mother can converge one or all of the above

The story of a mother who is crazy about her child, loves her child too much, in terms of being a mother is extremely normal. But experts also warn that when the level of love for children affects the psychology of the child as well as affects the mother's behavior, you need to be very careful.

Mother is too crazy about children - How does it affect the psychology of children?

Although she is 6 years old, Mi does not like to go to school. Every time she prepares to go to school, she cries and struggles. If she tries to get her to class, she has to stand at the school gate so she can see her through the window during class.

Mi is one of the children with maternal adhesion syndrome who has been treated at the Department of Psychology, National Hospital of Pediatrics. The doctor said that, too clingy to her mother, Mi fell into separation anxiety disorder, always afraid of her mother going away, afraid of being abandoned, and feeling insecure without her mother.

Thus, it can be seen that mothers who are too crazy about their children can make their children shy, afraid, dependent, and feel the mother is the best. As children grow up, it will be very difficult to adapt to the new environment and get along with those around them. Without adjusting the way of education, these children when growing up will be less independent, difficult to integrate, even affect the marriage life later.

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Did you know "love me properly"?

With mothers, children are always small. Many people even admit that they do not want their children to grow up, because the older the child becomes, the more distant a mother feels. But in reality, the mother must learn to accept it so that her child has the chance to become an adult, independent and successful in life.

Relatives and family should share and help mothers to realize this as well as correct psychological behavior with their children. If necessary, mothers should see a psychiatrist for appropriate treatment because this is essential for the child to develop a healthy psychology.

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