In order for children to develop comprehensively, parents must immediately stop these 10 things

In order for children to develop the full potentials available, parents should avoid habits that are thought to be useful but in fact are not beneficial for children.

It is obvious that every parent wants to do what's best for their children. For example, creating conditions for children to learn in a good educational environment. However, turning your child into an inquisitive child is the key to a young future.

Things that seem to help children, in fact, slow down children's cognitive development. So let's stop these 10 things right away, parents!

Doing things for children does not help children develop comprehensively

No parent wants their child to struggle, but sometimes it is a wise choice for children to cope.

For example, when a child needs to open the bottle of the water bottle, instead of opening it for him immediately, let him try to open the bottle himself. Or is as simple as letting your child get through some tough homework by himself ..

Small things like that will give children a chance to learn new things and find themselves successful when overcoming even small difficulties.

Buy everything your child wants

 

In order for children to develop comprehensively, parents must immediately stop these 10 things

Every parent, too, always works hard to have a full life and a well-developed child. However, the most important thing is to teach children to distinguish between NEED and WANTED.

Don't buy everything your child wants, even if your parents want it. Give your child a more valuable gift, which is to help children understand that Happiness is not material and that Parents' Love for their children does not come from gifts.

Give your child too many choices

Giving too many choices will only confuse and indecisive children. According to scientific research , children with too many toys will reduce brainstorming thoughts.

Example: When a parent takes a child to a toy store. Give a few options and agree on a certain cost. Then let the child decide what they want to buy, and the item fits the cost of the parent's price.

Decide everything for the child

If parents are always impatient and impatient, or always want to make decisions quickly instead of children. Then slow down a bit and you should know, letting your child decide will be a very valuable lesson.

When the whole family goes to a restaurant, let your child decide what they want instead of ordering. An assertive and self-determined child will be the premise in future communication skills.

BOOKS - one of the things to avoid

Helping children nurture a love of books will be great for children's development. Reading plays a huge part in developing children's knowledge and thinking development.

 

In order for children to develop comprehensively, parents must immediately stop these 10 things

When you are not a book-obsessed child, guide them to read short stories. Absolutely stay away from electronic devices and remote controls. Don't rush! Sitting together while reading a book will make the whole family enjoy a quiet and rewarding time.

Do not let children do chores

Learning is not only from school and books, children can also learn through small activities, such as helping parents with chores . Housework will help children feel helpful and feel respected. Do not refuse when the child wants to do housework, parents!

Let children watch TV, Ipad… too much

 

In order for children to develop comprehensively, parents must immediately stop these 10 things

There is no denying the fact that today children are exposed to too much technology, TVs, the Internet and electronic devices. And it is not too difficult to understand if children feel bored when switching to reading. However, please patiently guide your child to learn and work more in practice. That is what every family should do in this modern age.

Do not allow children to participate in activities and sports

Children's intelligence is also nurtured by social interaction skills. Allow your child to participate in a sport that involves team interaction and teamwork. This will help children develop confidence in themselves, cooperation and communication skills. Children will learn that solidarity and mutual love will help them have a beautiful friendship.

Do not teach children about fairness and limitations

 

In order for children to develop comprehensively, parents must immediately stop these 10 things

Restrictions and rules are essential to teaching a child to be disciplined . And it is also important to make children remember that these things will make them safe and stable.

Fairness and reality is a necessary condition for children to become an intelligent and responsible person.

Let your child WIN in all cases

Help your child understand that "Failure is the mother of success". Children will learn a lot of valuable lessons from even the smallest failures. Don't be afraid that you will fail without trying.

Children need to be understood that to have a success deserves them to work hard and struggle persistently. At that time, parents or children themselves will find that happiness and success are when we overcome ourselves, not at all costs to win in any job.

Let's work hard together every day, to train ourselves and raise our children well!

The article was compiled from: WebTech360 Singapore

BabyGaga.com ,  Time.com ,  Parenting Science

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