5 tips to score points with husbands family during Tet for bridesmaids

In the last days of the year approaching, many women start to worry about how to score points with their husband's family on Tet. Especially with new bridesmaids, loved or not by the husband's family very much depends on this time. In addition to helping with cleaning and preparing for Tet , what else should I do? Some great tips for scoring Tet days that you can refer to below.

1. She is numb to her mother-in-law during the Tet holiday

Usually, every parent wants his son's family to reunite soon, the more you spend together, the happier you are. Even so, most companies let them rest until 28 Tet, if the husband's hometown is far away, it will be even more urgent. But if the company takes leave late or early, the woman should also call her mother-in-law, discuss with her mother about the date the couple will return. That way I will be less stressed if only 30 couples are present, and I also see that the daughter-in-law is delicate and cares for me.

 

Everyone wants Tet to be gathered with children with a pot of banh chung

Just frankly share the vacation schedule of both agencies, in a soft, cooing voice, hoping for your mother to sympathize. At the same time, when announcing, trying to calm the atmosphere, asking about the preparation of Tet gifts, and asking if she wants to buy anything from the city. Suggest to your mother some new flowers, new fruits that you find beautiful, you can celebrate Tet in the countryside.

When the mother-in-law is happier, women can also take advantage of permission to go home every day.

2. Skillfully giving money and lucky money

First, husband and wife should discuss with each other about the amount of money they will give to parents of both sides for Tet, New Year's money for parents, younger brother / daughter, grandchildren. Be careful about the quantity and quality of the red bag accordingly, and divide who will give it directly. Especially, no matter how many ways we get a reward, we shouldn't be too wasteful, but the couple should consider the percentage, think about saving.

 

Being skillful in money is an advantage that should be promoted

Women should "win" the right to donate to their husband's parents. When giving your mother-in-law, you must be very skillful. Try to confide in your mother, if the donation amount this year is less or equal to every year, then use a good reason like husband and wife to spend the next year planning to have a baby, or repair the house. C

If lucky, give big bonus, give your parents a little bit better, do not rush to show off the bonus amount. But boast that you make a little extra from part-time jobs and although not much, you want your parents to be happy with the results of the couple.

3. Prepare gifts for grandparents, close relatives

This is the reason you are not allowed to announce the Tet bonus here, because besides giving your parents, there are hundreds of things to spend. When breaking down the use of the bonus, take a part for buying gifts for grandparents and relatives. At the heart of many.

 

Should prepare gifts for grandparents, relatives

With the grandparents and grandparents of your husband, take the time to visit before Tet, bring your grandparents a premium tea package, delicious cake boxes and some new levels from the city to bring. As for relatives and uncle, half a kilogram of sausage or a packet of cashews or a box of foreign cakes is enough to score a delicate score.

Even if you do not have time to visit everyone's home, send your parents-in-law for help. At that time, parents still had a big nose with relatives because of their daughter-in-law. Although few, remember to choose safe, delicious and special products to show that you truly care.

4. Show your talent for making delicious and novel dishes

The kitchen on Tet holiday is indispensable in women's "career" as a bride. Besides the traditional dishes every year, you can show your talent with many new dishes , change your taste.

 

Improving the menu on New Year's Day helps to have a richer taste

For example, learning a new hot pot can show talent when relatives gather to play Tet at the husband's family. If you have time, you can make ready-made snacks suitable for the parties of your father-in-law and business guests. Be more diligent, then make some delicious cakes to invite guests, proving the ingenuity.

But don't be too pushy or overwhelm your mother-in-law no matter how good you are at cooking. Please consult with mom and ask her to advise which food is suitable. At the same time she can invite her to go shopping for ingredients, let her try the finished product first, ...

 

Show the ingenuity of the modern woman

5. Always smile

Tet for women is a very strenuous occasion. Maybe in the first year of returning to her husband's house, the new bride has to stand all day cooking, cleaning, washing dishes until her feet are stiff. Plus a sense of alienation, homesickness and self-pity.

But remember that every parent wants to see their children happy the first days of the year. Because of Vietnamese conception, 3 smiley days, the whole year will be lucky. Therefore, in order to score points with the husband's family on Tet holiday, women should keep smiles on their lips. Especially when a guest comes to wish the New Year, the bridesmaids try to be polite to their parents-in-law, diligently serve the guests, make tea and still smile.

 

Always smile, luck will come in the new year

In this way, parents-in-law can open their noses to guests and relatives, and you will also get a "fragrant sound" to be friendly and cute. If you are too tired or upset, go to your room and talk to your husband, ask him to help, comfort you.

It is not difficult to score points with the husband's family on Tet holiday, right? Only the bridesmaids put their mind in and do with care and love for their husband's family like their own. Surely neither parents-in-law would have the heart to make it difficult for their daughter-in-law.

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