Postpartum indifference germ of disaster of family happiness

Postpartum frigidity due to many underlying psychological and physiological causes. This is a phenomenon of declining sexual desire in women, making them lose their excitement when having sex. Many women even have a feeling of fear when "close" to their husbands.

Frigidity after giving birth makes the family broken

 

postpartum frigidity

Recently, a longtime best friend with a shocked expression came to see me. Before she could ask, she had told all the source of the incident. She said: "Uncle, I lost it all. My family is broken. My husband already has someone else. " Then she sobbed in front of me. I panic is just a quarrel between her and her husband as usual, who would have expected it to be so shallow.

Seeing my friend suffer with despair, I couldn't help but grieve. She is a loving person, always taking care of her family and children, now encountering this is too difficult to accept. She asked me: Why is it so unjust for a person who is devoted to her husband and children like me? Where did I go wrong?

My friend had Postpartum Apathy without even realizing it

I love you, but thinking over and over again, this outcome was not unpredictable. Although my friend sacrificed so much for her husband, but what she gave away, it is unlikely that her husband would need it.

Before, she was too focused on taking care of her children, but forgot about herself, forgetting the loving affection for her husband. She thought, as long as I take care of the house, and the children are good, I can rest assured that the family will be peaceful. Only when the storm of adultery passed, did she truly wake up.

I asked L, do you know what the cause is? She cried and said, "He said, he has to endure me for years. Every time I want to be close to my wife, I have to beg. Then my "place" smells, dry, ... "

These words are indeed very harsh to a woman. Although I find him to be blamed, but I also think that my friend is not completely innocent.

Like so many postpartum women, my friend suffers from Postpartum Apathy without trying to fix it, making the relationship of the couple gradually crack. My friend's family stood on the edge of collapse, but it was not without a cure, although it was a bit late.

 

postpartum frigidity

The symptoms of Postpartum Frigidity are quite easy to recognize, as women we should learn a little will be easier to overcome.

Symptoms of Postpartum Frigidity

Little or no interest in sexual activity

No thoughts or fantasies about sex.

Difficult to reach orgasm during sex

Lack of excitement when genitals are stimulated.

Discomfort or burning pain during sex

Fear of touching sensitive areas, loving gestures from partner

Some women with postpartum apathy caused by a decrease in female hormones will have some obvious physical manifestations such as:

Rough body

Dark, dark, rough skin

Mentally uncomfortable, always feeling uncomfortable, easily irritable.

Causes of Postpartum Apathy

Physiological causes:

Postpartum women who breastfeed their babies, when babies suckle, the pituitary gland secretes a large amount of Prolacti, which inhibits the ovaries, making the vagina dry, painful during sex. Therefore, many women feel scared and no longer want to continue the next "love". In addition, Postpartum cold can be caused by a number of other reasons such as:

Damage to blood vessels or nerves after hysterectomy or other surgery involving the reproductive organs

Depression and anxiety disorders

Use drugs such as: Antidepressants, blood pressure drugs

Being overweight or obese

Hormonal deficiencies, hormonal fluctuations or low testosterone levels

Blood flow to the vagina and uterus decreases

Having pain in the vulva makes sexual activity painful

Psychological reasons:

Postpartum women often have a sense of self-esteem about their body, feeling that they are no longer attractive. This makes women afraid to be close to their husbands or to be close, no longer comfortable and confident as before.

Stress in everyday life can also have an impact on a woman's libido. Staying up at night, worrying about finances, taking care of family, work ... thereby leading to stress, makes me no longer need to have sex.

By the end of the day, sleep becomes a priority, not sex. Without sharing help from a partner, this stressful situation becomes even more severe.

How to overcome Frigidity after giving birth, find the fire to love in the free days

 

Frigidity after giving birth

Even if you do not want to face, you still have to understand that sex is very important in the relationship of a couple. Do not be naive to think that, I take care of all the housework, delicious rice and sweet soup is enough.

If the "sex" between your husband and wife does not get along, sooner or later the good things you do will not keep the family home. Remember:

- No matter how busy you are, take time to take care of yourself. Spend 10 minutes every night on skin care, I don't think it's too difficult, and the results will surprise you.

- Many women after giving birth, without proper nutrition, will make the body tired and lack of vitality. Try to improve your diet, combine exercise, yoga, ... to quickly regain your physical health.

- In many cases, postpartum apathy is caused by hormonal changes. Women should learn how to improve female physiology with diet and exercise. At the same time combined with the use of female physiological pills to ensure the best physiological health.

- Use lubricating oil if you feel the vaginal area is vulnerable or prone to dryness.

- Have sex in a suitable position to avoid damaging the vaginal area.

- Should have sex while the body is healthy and when the child sleeps, in a private space with only the couple.

- Talk to husband. Communication with your partner is very important. Express your concerns honestly, and ask your husband for help. Only then can husband and wife understand and sympathize with each other, and their feelings will become strong.

Postpartum apathy is not a serious disease, but if we take it lightly, it is a threat to family happiness.

My friend, after finding out the cause and how to overcome his postpartum depression, found his seemingly no more happiness. Her husband was just reluctant to cause trouble, now that the barrier between the couple has been removed, they can happily get along.

As a woman, the person who ignites the fire of love, if you suspect that you have postpartum apathy, do your best to reverse it. Because to us family is everything, right?

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