Old love… this phrase is damnable. What if they keep bothering? How to treat her husband's ex-lover now?
It is often said, the old love does not invite. It might be a familiar location for the two of you. Maybe in a class meeting. Accidentally met at a cafe. Since then, the ex-lover of the husband again stick like glue.
How to treat her husband's ex-lover now? Too tired!
Get to know your opponent exactly
Right! Master yourself, master the enemy. Already an old love, there are benefits and harms. The harm is that they too understand their husband. Husband need what, want what, how? Husband like? They can both understand.
Know who your opponent is
The advantage is that when you broke up, more or less had a crack. The problem is only how far. Find out how she got back to her husband?
Emotional, rational or forced ?
Don't believe the fallacy around
"Do not be jealous of wind jealousy, you and her are the past. Now I see her as my sister, best friend ”.
Sorry, there's no such thing as ever falling in love and now being a best friend. Just say your husband is kind. But the concern is whether the lovers are so kind. Or is it: "You raise it ??". Is it possible to raise 'meat'? Opening his mouth and cried: "I consider your husband like a brother". But at night, it will be quiet.
“I miss you, I… want us to go back, start over. You are better than my wife ... "
See, that's not bastard, is braking enough. Women should remember that even if men get married, when they see their old love again, they are still a little flustered. If the old person attacks, it will always fall on her heart.
Being a woman must be strong in front of honey
"You marry him, can you be in love with mother-in-law ?? In the past, his mother liked you so much, and kept saying, "I just hope to have a daughter-in-law like you". Still, my mother and I have no fate, his mother must be sad "
Bravery does not need to say much. Just this sentence is enough.
“You should remember that this bride is the sister, not me. Don't be close. "
Be the high-handed woman
Right! Absolutely never compromise with that kind of woman who steals another husband. If not enough, the wife can lose her husband forever. Please know need, know the right time. That is to be appreciated as a high-handed.
Let him handle it himself
You just need to stand from a distance to observe, and intervene as needed. There is also no need to think too much. At least trust him first. Because this is relationship his business. Let him sort it out on his own.
Mostly, if the husband really loves his wife, he will have a way of getting back to his wife's side without leaving any consequences.
But oh my, in this world, heroes are difficult through beauties ...
Be friendly
Treat her with a friendly treatment when she hasn't acted out of your way to your husband. Be as normal as possible. Don't let her see discomfort or embarrassment on your face. Please behave wisely.
Tired of her ex-boyfriend messing with her husband
If you are determined to eat all, fall back to zero, show a cold attitude and ask her to stay away from your husband . Because you are protected by law in name. Not even as indented as someone. Peace of mind.
Protect yourself
Make sure you respect her. And if she is disrespectful and shows a defiant or defiant attitude, then choose the smartest way to fight. Because you are currently a wife and she is just an ex. Make sure your husband knows this, and tells him to stay away from her.
Also be wary of small people. Don't take her word for it when she says she wants to meet privately. Maybe, it's a trap waiting for you. Please know how to protect yourself.
Organize 3 person meetings
Treat your husband's ex, you should not hide. This is a situation you should face to protect your home. And letting the other woman know that she wants to steal the happiness of others is not easy. Or at least they'll see how happy your family is to retreat.
Three-sided one-word story clarification
If you take the initiative to meet, she will make a different assessment of you. This meeting is also for you to assess the other party and understand the ex's intentions, as well as examine the feelings of your husband and her.
Epilogue
What is the problem here? There are many ways to treat your husband's ex-lover. It matters which way you choose only.
And ladies, remember there is one last trick. If it can be tied, it can also be removed. If it can match, it can also dissolve. Be stronger.
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