3 ways Japanese parents teach their children independently from a young age make the world learn

How to teach children to be independent from a young age is always a concern of many parents. Do not worried! With the ways Japanese parents teach their children independently, parents will have a very rewarding experience. Let's learn how to teach children to be independent from a young age!

If the child is too wrapped up by his parents from a young age, when he grows up, he or she will not be independent, depending on others to do anything. Such children are often weak, selfish, unable to help and love others. Therefore, teaching children to be independent early is very essential. Many Japanese parents have helped their children become independent from 0 - 6 years old.

There are 3 main highlights in the way Japanese parents teach their children independently:

Teach your children to be independent when going to school

From a young age Japanese children are taught by their parents to dress, wear shoes and carry things by themselves. Because children have to change so many times at school: to take off their shoes and change with slippers when coming to class; Change clothes and shoes if exercise class is available. After school, children have to clean up tables and chairs, clean tables, wash towels, sweep class ...

 

Japanese parents teach their children to be independent from a very early age so that they can be independent when they go to school

In Japan, the study period usually lasts from morning to afternoon. So during lunch break, children often eat the food their mother prepared. It is perfectly normal for a child to eat and tidy up his own meals. Many Japanese parents even teach their children to be independent by teaching their children to cook very early.

In addition, usually children in kindergarten will be picked up and dropped by their parents. But when they reach grade 1, they are encouraged to walk by themselves and not disturb others too much. That helps children to form a habit of self-awareness and independence in personal work.

 

Children learn how to clean themselves at school, at home, and in public settings

In addition, at school, students will have to arrange their own tables and chairs, and voluntarily keep the classroom clean. When dropping items, they are encouraged to pick them up on their own. In addition, students are also forged the habit of being active. When submitting papers, they must present it to the teacher without passing it on to the teacher.

Create a habit of independence early

There are many simple habits that parents can teach their children early, so that babies can learn to be independent. The same is true of the Japanese way of teaching children.

Parents often teach their children to dress, fold clothes, take away the glass of water they just drank. Or let children do "running errands" when their mothers cook, clean the house ...

Parents start to teach children from simple things and gradually increase the difficulty level as children get used to. Mother pay attention that should not scold children when they cannot do it on their own. Because scolding will make children lose confidence in their abilities.

On the table, Japanese parents often put 1 wet towel and 1 napkin, so that children learn from adults how to clean themselves. If the sink is too high, the Japanese will design a chair for your child to climb. Clothes many buttons, if I do not know how to take off, Japanese mother will let me wear simple zippers, buttons or buttons for me to wear on my own. Or at home, if you want your child to know how to store the toys on their own, parents will make a few baskets. On it clearly write the type of toy so that children know how to classify and store in the right place.

 

When teaching children to be independent, parents need to be patient to point their children until they can do it on their own

Never criticize

Japanese parents think that we can work many times before we can master it. So when you start working, children are slow or make mistakes is also very normal. Therefore, Japanese parents never blame their children, but always encourage them to be excited.

The Japanese motto is "Better to do wrong than do nothing". Moreover, when they make mistakes, they will become more courageous and assess themselves. Japanese parents always encourage children to say what they think and do what they think is right.

Reviews of the book "Japanese parents teach their children independently"

A lot of interesting and interesting things about parenting will be shared in the book "Japanese Parents Teach Children Independent". Parents can buy for more reference!

 

The book shares ways to teach children life skills and is welcomed by many Japanese parents, as well as many other countries

This book is written by the author Sugahara Yuko. The author himself is also a mother and has experience in consulting for thousands of Japanese parents , on training life skills and bookkeeping for children.

This book has a high practical value. Because it is written from the true stories that the author Sugahara Yuko met during parent counseling.

For example: When a child does something wrong, how do parents act? Which parent has treated their child according to their child's personality? Which parents let their children wake up by themselves in the morning?

 

Parents should spend a lot of time teaching their children to be independent so that their children have comprehensive development

Many Japanese ways of teaching independent children are shared interestingly through the author's point of view. We believe this book will be of great help to parents who need to teach their children how to be independent from that young age!

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