The American parenting style is admired by parents all over the world

Americans are known for their "whip-free" parenting style that is admired and learned by many Vietnamese parents as well as the world. So, specifically, how do Americans teach children? Stay tuned!

"No whip" - Punishment and rewarding of American children

Detention

One of the most common penalty methods in use in the United States is detention. Mothers breastfeed won't let their babies go out to play if their baby makes a mistake, they will ask her to stay at home obediently. The time of detention will depend on the severity of the mistakes the child makes, whether the child is old or too young, they will be detained when they make them.

Unlike in Vietnam, overseas children from a very young age have been taught the most basic lessons of not touching dangerous indoor equipment such as knives, scissors, ... So when applying pictures detention for children they don't worry about being in the house alone will be in danger. But the children in Vietnam are different, they are not taught about dangerous objects in the house, when they come close to dangerous objects, parents take their children out. Because of the overprotection and indulgence of their children, Vietnamese parents never dare to think about leaving their children alone at home.

Detaining babies from home alone will give them more time to think about the wrongdoings they have committed. No child wants to be in the house alone, by that time they will recognize and reflect on their own mistakes. No need to spank, but you still know the fault.

Cut pocket money

Of her mother's milk diapers in the United States often give children pocket money given daily, weekly, monthly. But every time they make a mistake, the kids' allowance will be cut. By cutting this allowance, they again encourage their children by doing housework by themselves and paying their children according to the degree of work. For example, when your kids lie, cut the allowance for a week, have them do odd jobs for a week, and pay them every day.

Deprive your child's hobbies and interests

Vietnamese mothers, when they see that their children make mistakes, often deal with spanking, but spanking can only make them hurt at that time, fear at that time, then the children do again and do not know how to draw the menstruation. experience. For children, you should strip them of their hobbies and interests when they do something wrong, this way will be more effective than using the whip. You can not let your children watch TV, cut out their favorite programs, ... for a certain period of time such as: 1 day, 2 days, 1 week, ... depending on the level of error. caused by the child.

Let me do housework

When their children make mistakes, American mothers often ask their children to do housework to "be punished" for their mistakes. If your child is young, let them clean the room, a little older you can let them clean the house, trim the lawn in the garden, ... depending on the degree of mistake and depending on their age. . After so many times, the children will surely be scared and do not dare to do the chores again, with the punishment for chores to not only help them to regret but also help them learn to do housework.

For example, if your child is busy going out and refuses to clean his own room, you should punish him or her to clean the whole family within 2 days.

Know how to reward children at the right time

Americans often know how to reward and punish children at the right time. When their child makes a mistake, they will have the appropriate punishment without the whip that will make them remember forever. Besides, they also know how to encourage, encourage and motivate their children to try the next time. Sometimes just a hug, a clap, a kiss to congratulate the children to enjoy and increasingly try to improve themselves. Those are the ways to punish children without the whip, we should admit that Americans teach their children fairly, have clear rewards and penalties and we should learn from them.

American way of teaching children

Teach your children to be independent from a young age

In America, right from birth, babies have a separate bedroom, separate from their loved ones. This enables children to be independent and avoid depending too much on their family members. When children were 2.3 years old, they were taught independent skills such as: taking food, drinking water or milk, knowing how to stand up when falling ... Adults always try and persevere to create I am independent from a young age . They believe that training children in self-service habits for their needs will help them increase their independence and develop awareness when they mature.

Be an example, respectfully and persistently explain to your child

Children always tend to and learn from adults, so American parents always pay attention to their behavior towards their children, towards everyone around. With good things, they always try to repeat many times in front of children so that they can follow, while bad habits and actions are always minimized when the child is present.

American children have always been respected by adults, but are disciplined. When children make mistakes such as lying, disrespect, refusing to eat, not self-studying, ... they always punish them by cutting allowance, cutting out the things they like, making housework, ... absolutely they do not scold, hit, or threaten.

American parents understand that, even though there are many times getting angry, angry and losing their temper, they must absolutely not lose control to the point of teaching their children in a "tit-for-tat" style, they must be very alert and strict. with kids at the right time. Children are always curious children, when they see strange things around them they will ask and wonder, they always know how to patiently explain, guide, not ignore or avoid their questions.

"Obedient" and "cooperative"

For Americans, the concept of "good children" is children who cooperate, not just obey and leave it there. When children are stubborn and disobedient, Americans will not punish their children in the form of threats, beatings, but instead they will seriously correct and beat their children's interests so that children can cooperate voluntarily. and spontaneous in correcting mistakes.

Teach your children how to behave

From a young age, American children have to adapt to daily life in the family and follow the basic rules including how to stand for everyone in society. The American way of teaching children is to always teach children to say thank you when someone helps or to show a happy attitude when a visitor comes to the house ... Americans always teach children how to welcome new friends, they always convey to the child how to be sociable, if the child does not get along, they will not be able to participate in any other group games.

In Vietnam, adults always embrace and deny when children make mistakes. Americans are different, they always teach children to take responsibility when they realize their mistakes. They always know how to motivate and help their children in the educational sphere.

Empower your child

Children in the US, when starting school, are often more courageous and confident than children in Vietnam. “Empowering” children is the key to good, cooperative and obedient children. You should let your child feel these “rights”:

Faith

Respect

Equality

Self-esteem

Encouragement

In America, human rights are always respected, so parents here always care and take care of children in a special way. Without being discriminated against, American children are always considered a valuable asset of the country and the country and need to be properly loved and educated to maximize their inherent abilities. This is one of the reasons that makes the US country increasingly strong in terms of economy, culture, society and leading the world in many fields.

Above are sharing about how to teach children without whip. Hope this article can provide all the necessary information for readers, especially parents. I wish you success in your children's education!

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