Working away from home, her husband insists on asking for love online: Is it normal or sick?

Online love - a term that has only been around for the past few years. It is not only literal long distance love but also true, couples must show love differently.

When the age of technology develops, people think of this game. Previously, when brick phones were rare, the desktops could also become tools to "love" far away - alo sex.

Now, phone sex - or online love - is adopted by many people. Everywhere there is wifi, everywhere there is 4G. Phone is available, why not try?

But be careful!

Solve the physiological needs of online love

 

Internet love as a method to address physiological needs

Ms. Do Thi Hong - 25 years old, living in Bac Ninh, confided that she is a worker in Bac Ninh, but her lover works as a long-distance driver. There are times when he goes for a month to visit his lover. Every time she goes away, her lover likes to be loved online. He always calls facetime and asks his lover to "have sex" with him. Although they are only languages, Hong's lover is satisfied.

At first, Hong was scared and disgusted. But thinking back on it was a safer way for a boyfriend to go out and have sex with a prostitute. For about a year, Hong said that each time they go away they have to make phone sex, but they still love each other and their feelings are always new. She believes that thanks to this type of love, she and her lover always trust each other.

Like Hong, Ms. Dao Thi Hue (Bac Giang) confided that her husband went to Japan to export labor. Because my husband always misses sex, he demands sex with his wife and Hue agrees. Every night, when my child slept deeply, Mrs. Hue and her husband began to "have sex". The words indicating the couple to sign together were enough to help Hue 'get to the top ' while her husband was like that.

They "have sex" regularly 3 times / week. Hue herself also only considers this as a way to relieve the physiology of the two, so they still maintain phone sex.

Opinion from doctor

Doctor Ha Ngoc Manh - Professional Director of Vietnam-Belgium Fertility and Fertility Hospital said, he also encountered a few cases where patients also lamented that they had to work far away from their wives or lovers. Many groups of patients are concerned about this. The doctor had to advise patients to be assured of treatment. The fact that they see phone sex as a psychological relief is also very good. Less harmful but absolutely no abuse.

Danger from online love

 

Words, breaths, and moans can help the person to reach the top

Virtual sex practice can occur between partners who have established a long-standing relationship or are new or geographically distant. But if there are people who do not know each other first, then start a conversation and gradually talk about sex, it will be very dangerous.

Many people who love over the phone think this is a sexual mismatch. But in fact, according to Dr. Manh, there are couples, lovers who are far apart and when they just speak normally, a little more abstract. Someone uses slang. Someone uses profanity. But it was just two people's languages ​​and they could excel with it. This is not misleading because it is the space of two people.

However, the case of excessive phone sex has many complications. Specifically, some of the possible problems are as follows:

Abuse of online love harms health

Masturbating is very dangerous

Increased risk of genital infections

There is a possibility of misunderstanding between real and virtual

Love online, when I want to export. Real love, the time is not sure to be me. Since then, the partner lacks confidence in premature ejaculation.

The ability to leak images out is extremely large

Many cases of phone sex finished, broke up, and reverse extorted.

Epilogue

 

Not sick, but don't overdo it

In general, online love is not necessarily a bad thing. Even, it is agreed with some that it can help with the physiological resolution .

Many people studying abroad, many labor exporters can completely choose this method with their lovers, spouses as a way to not find "goods" outside.

But remember! Moderate, do not overdo it.

Something not too good.

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