The consequences when parents put pressure on their children to study

Why create pressure for children to study? All for you - because you want you to have a better life, because you want you to be happier than your parents' life, and in the end, your dreams will turn into your dreams of life, Even if it fails, your parents will press in to become it. 

Is it a mistake to put pressure on your child's studies?

Pressure is often the driving force for efforts, trying to achieve goals you set. On the positive side, healthy learning pressure is essential for children to love learning, putting all their focus on learning. Parents put moderate pressure to help their children achieve their goals, and give them lots of support and encouragement. Healthy pressure is when children are able to do a job, learn a subject they love, and are interested and motivated to learn and work.

Parents create learning pressure for their children

On the contrary, unhealthy pressure stems from the parents' needs, forcing their children to do what they expect, and this activity is not the child's interests or needs. The problem is now common in Vietnam. Parents invest in their children to attend top-ranked schools that we were unable to attend before, wish their children to go to top universities, work with high wages and force their children to fulfill their parents' dreams.

Parents often put pressure on learning and making decisions for their children and want their children to do things that their parents have not yet done.

The fear that the child is inferior to his friends like before, the parents create all the conditions to compensate for the child, and when expecting too much of the child, the pressure on the child's shoulder is natural. They think they have the right to make decisions about their children's lives, to make decisions for them.

Learning pressure has negative effects on teenagers

Schools create learning pressure for children

Primary children aged 6-8 years do not have a competition in scores, but the more they reach the end of primary school, the more they have the ambition to win against their peers in their academic results, fear of losing, and fear of being compared. . Learning pressure adversely affects children because they feel stressed and feel uncertain future. Competition for good knowledge is motivating for a young child, but competing for a high position in the classroom creates a heavy burden on tween. Even when I was in the first position, I still panicked and feared I could not keep this achievement.

Increased stress and anxiety

The constant stress, plus the focus for learning and taking the extracurricular activities lightly, reducing hobbies, and passion will negatively affect the child's nerves. Children have negative feelings about their studies, some children experience worse when there is too much pressure, even depression, anxiety or suicide.

Children at the end of primary school may develop symptoms such as insomnia, eating disorders, excessive anxiety, cheating, exhaustion, giving up on personal preferences or alienating from friends and family ...

Learning pressure puts an overload on a child's developing body. Children may experience stomach pain, diarrhea, headache and a rash. Many children are afraid to go to school, hate learning, the more they try to force them, they may hate their parents.

Negative self-image

Researchers have shown that children who are put under pressure from their parents by over-managing their schoolwork are more likely to develop depression, exhibit aversion to life, and decreased self-control and capacity. This highly controlled parenting approach undermines a child's cognitive development of self and self-confidence.

Carelessness and letting go

When the pressure reaches a point where a tween can no longer stand it, the child will tend to let go and show a reckless attitude. At this point, all the pressure from parents seems to be useless.

Putting too much academic pressure on elementary school kids can have damaging side effects, even ruining a child's learning when his or her nerves are overly stressed. What you need to do is change your own perceptions, do not make your child's life more tired.

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