If there is a common denominator for every successful case anywhere on earth, tell you 100% that he or she has very high self-study skills. The most advanced education in the world focuses on building self-study skills for students and it is the highest skill that all education needs to aim for.
In Vietnam, many people often confuse self-study and self-study attitudes. These are two different concepts, and the self-learning attitude is just the beginning of self-learning!
Let's listen to Mother Thuy Tulip - Psychological advisor for the Self-Study Site to share step by step forging children into self-study habits!
First, you need to look at yourself first. Did parents learn by themselves when they were young? Are parents trained for the habit of self-study? It is the lifestyle that is trained at a young age by the father and mother who will greatly affect the lifestyle of the child now.
FIND THE CAUSE: WHY DO YOU REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE A NEW STUDENT?
Mother reminded - urged - to shout or flatter the new child to study
This is the general situation of many children at home. If your child is in such a situation then it is common in the district!
Due to family living habits
During the school days, does my house follow a routine? Or is the time each day is different? That is one of the reasons why children do not form the habit of self-study. Habits are things that are repeated every day.
Partly due to the baby's temperament
Train your child self-study skills
Parents should be people who understand their child's temperament. There are many children who really enjoy outside activities such as dancing and singing, but do not like sitting still to write or do math. Actually this is completely understandable and understandable.
School work piled up
Parents should sympathize with the baby. In fact, the assignments assigned by the teacher are often too heavy for primary school students.
For example, grade 1 has to practice writing, have that letter, know how to write, but also force the child to write some pages evenly and beautifully, to be honest, write my arm. Exercises do not require any creativity at all, and have nothing to do with the baby's experience / experience or real life. So when doing homework, getting bored ... is a must! Up to level 2 level 3, the whole lesson is memorized. Look great! Therefore, parents should understand and sympathize with their children.
Train your child self-study skills
WAYS TO PRACTICE AUTHORITY ATTITUDE FOR CHILDREN
Family living habits
First of all, it is necessary to consider family living habits: it is necessary to put in order, of course, only relatively, not need to be 100% punctual. If you expect your child to obey the school's rules, but at home, having activities all around, the child will not be able to form skills.
Families need to have regularity and a clear time frame. After returning home from school, what time do we have to sit at the desk to study, when it is time to go to bed. If the family activities are not in order, it should be gradually adjusted, trying to arrange for the child to have a fixed dinner time, study and bedtime at night. Weekends can be comfortable, parents and children play comfortably, but weekdays must be fixed.
With children from 3 to 6 years old
This is very easy, because the child hasn't been pressured to complete it at school yet. Children need to practice the habit of sitting at the desk every night, even if 15-20 minutes is enough. While sitting there, let your child do drawing activities, reading books, coloring, coloring, playing pictures, etc., activities related to using hand writing skills. Time to sit in school should be fixed, should not be disturbed.
When children sit and draw, parents should also sit and read something, preferably newspapers / books (not the phone), while watching the child while showing that their parents are mentally reading. If your child often asks and does not answer, they should set a clock, after 5 minutes they will be asked, then increase it to 6 minutes, 7 minutes to 20 minutes.
Should extremely restrict children to watch TV and play on the phone, ipad!
Using many phones makes children slow to develop! What to do when I HAVE ADDICTED THE SCREEN?
If I go to an older class and find that the child is not concentrating, then I understand why!
Listen to Bill Gates how old you should be to let your child use the phone!
With children from grade 1 to grade 5
If your child has formed a self-learning attitude since childhood, now very well, she knows automatically until now she has to sit at the desk. However, parents should also pay attention to cases where children work very slowly or ask too much (depending on their parents).
Train your child self-study skills
Do not intimidate children: if you do not study, the teacher will punish them, if you do not study, you will sell lottery tickets tomorrow.
Do not say so because it will bring negative psychology to the baby. Children will feel that if they do not study, if they do not do their homework, they will give up their life. Yes, that is just the thinking of parents, but life is long, not studying today is unlikely to fail tomorrow. This learning is just a deal with the school, with qualifications only, but does not affect the success of children in the future.
What should parents do when children do not have the habit of self-study?
Parents should sit close and read something. When children have a habit, we should do our jobs, avoid sitting near, but not turn on the television or watch the phone. This will be beneficial when your child goes to an older grade like middle school and high school. Parents teach their children to learn by actions, not words!
In summary, these are just a few suggestions to help parents form and improve the self-study attitude for their children. Recommendations, my articles or those of professors of certain educational experts, Japanese mothers of America should only be for reference. Read but be selective, find a way that suits your home situation and your child's temperament. Every tree every flower, every house every scene! Only parents can understand themselves and their children.
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