Any woman wants to find a reliable man to love, to marry. However, falling in love with a reliable man isn't necessarily the right choice? Read the article below to understand why there is such a contradictory opinion.
Love a reliable man - must accept "pale"
If you are the type of woman who likes new, passionate in love, you should not choose a reliable man. Because the lives of these men are often "running" steadily, are like a clock. He often hangs around in his "comfort zone", afraid to innovate.
So, if you want to receive a bouquet of flowers when there is no occasion, then… forget about it. There won't be any romance going on here. Love a reliable man, make sure you can withstand their "long-term lack".
You look forward to your lover suddenly giving flowers? Should forget!
Be honest with the reason you choose a reliable man
More than anyone, you know well, it is difficult to have strong feelings for this type of man. Intense emotions require a "burning" from both sides. Trusted people are usually gentle, their emotions are as calm as water. Therefore, it is difficult for you to have any strong vibes with them. However, being with such people, you feel secure and calm. But that is not love.
The real reason you choose to be with a trusted man is because you… are afraid of events in love. Or you are too tired of the uncertainties, broken from previous relationships. Obviously, you have a better "calculation" for yourself in pairing with this person.
You choose peace instead of intense love!
Loving a trustworthy man is normative love
Love for a while, you will realize, the man you are falling in love with follows a "set of rules". On time will meet, on time will text. Not only that, the content of the message will be the same from day to day. You want cafe A, they agree. You want to eat restaurant B, they will indulge ... They respect your opinion so much that it makes you suspect they are following to avoid controversy.
Love is a very crazy, very unusual and varied emotion. Love someone too trustworthy, your emotions will be eroded. You don't have to get angry when he is late, you don't have to be jealous when he doesn't "stick around" but you ... Women often wish for love without suffering, without betrayal, without pain. But do you really like such a "auto love"? Because, when the feeling of tranquility, the initial peace of mind is over. After a while, you will feel extremely tired and bored
He's too nice to his family, sometimes pressures you
Trustworthy men are usually very nice to the family. They love and listen to their parents, protect and care for their brothers and sisters. However, this personality becomes pressure when you fall in love and choose him as your husband. If the relationship between you and his family is good, it's okay.
But if you are in a mess between you and his family, you will suffer. Because, he will be more inclined to his family than to defend you. If it is better, he will also become the person in the middle "blindfolded, blindfolded". Wanting to fight with him for the benefits of a small family in front of a big family is impossible. This is also one of the bad things about men after getting married to know.
The reliable type of man is often difficult to choose on the side of his wife or family
For real love, step through the "comfort zone"
Psychological people always want to be safe in their comfort zone. But that's not love, girls. Do not because of that security but lose the joy, the sweetness that love brings. A risky love has its excitement and its cost. Just that price you can control and accept.
Women have only one adolescence. So enjoy all the emotions that love brings. Recognize the dissolution, suffering or sweetness, sublimation in love as an inevitable. Dear friend, please really love so that the memories of youth are so beautiful.
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